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Too Busy to Respond?

Telling someone - "I am busy", do we need to put some thought before using it in our communication? I have started doing so recently and would like to talk about that here today. There are different ways and situations where we hear these words - I am really busy . Let's take two such scenarios. First, when we are having a casual conversation with someone and the person asks about how are things going. The other case may be when a friend is trying to reach out to you and you have not been able to get back to him/her even after your friend's repeated attempts. Eventually, when you meet after few days, you try to shrug it off by saying - Hey, sorry could not respond. Was busy . There's a difference in the two situations and I started this post to share about how the overuse of this word, "busy" can harm our connections. So, I will l imit myself to the discussion of the second situation. I feel that in this case, essentially what we are telling t